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The Highest Form of Thankfulness

Volunteer_foodLet us remember that, as much has been given us, much will be expected from us, and that true homage comes from the heart as well as from the lips, and shows itself in deeds. ~Theodore Roosevelt

The highest form of thankfulness comes from helping others, even in simple ways. Do a good deed today. You may not have time to serve in a food program, but you can spare a few minutes to help an elderly neighbor or a single parent. Perhaps you can give a caregiver a much needed break or stop at an extended care facility for a visit. We can all do something that benefits others.

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Charity Focus

Check out CharityFocus.org. It is one of my new favorite websites!

I love this mission statement – CharityFocus is an experiment in the joy of giving. Our services enable inspired people to contribute in meaningful ways to the world around them. Together, we hope to “be the change we wish to see in the world.”


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Defining Moments are the Checkpoints in Life

Do you know what your defining moments are?  We all have them, those marks on the timeline that separate our lives into before and after. If you stop to think about it you probably have many. I certainly do; the moments I got married, the signing of divorce papers, the births of children and without a doubt the death of my father are all forever etched in my memory.  As I look back over the 40+ years of my life, one moment clearly stands out as having had the most life-altering impact and serves as a checkpoint in my existence. On October 13, 1989 @1:28 PM life as I know it vanished, to be replaced by a fresh, uncertain reality. 21 years ago I became a mother. That’s it. A simple declaration, yet more than a label, it was an indescribable alteration of reality.

I think in our society we often give the importance of motherhood lip service, but for me truly, in a single second, the trajectory, focus and purpose of my life shifted. My views on religion, politics and the role of women dramatically changed. My goals and dreams were drastically transformed. The way I viewed life was now child-centered and then world-centered, rather than self-centered. I encountered fears and worries that had never plagued me before. Of course there was love that I was completely unprepared for and a strength and fierceness that I could not have envisioned. In that defining moment I became more; more caring, more determined, more thoughtful, more purposeful. And yes, I correspondingly became more anxious and more fearful at times. I became more of the person I was meant to be. My life is divided into halves; the 21 years before and the 21 years after. The funny thing is when I think back now I can hardly remember life before. My life has become all about life after.

In one lightening flash of an instant my heart cracked wide open and life rushed in…

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Orange County Fun

How to Stop Doing “Stupid Work”

Occasionally I like to share a post from another blog that I think is relevant and thought-provoking. I just loved the title and the ideas in this recent post by Tammy Strobel at rowdykittens.com. If this describes you at all, then give some thought as to what needs to change.

Orange County Fun“Stupid work” happens when you give into fear, give up creative control, and stop doing work that matters.

Depending on your field of expertise your idea of stupid work might be different from mine. For instance, by the time I was in my mid 20’s I worked at a number of “real jobs,” had a BA and two masters degrees. But I didn’t feel a sense of accomplishment or that my work rocked. A lot of my work was unnecessary, automated, and stupid. Attending three hour meetings, commuting over 2 hours a day, and playing office politics were a few of the many stupid things I engaged in. This type of work left me feeling dissatisfied and pressured to conform to what others wanted my professional life to look like. I also wondered if all my education mattered or if it conditioned me to follow the status-quo.

In many ways I think the motivation for doing stupid work emanates from fear. The fear of being useless, fear of being without money, or the fear of doing something different. By choosing to stop doing stupid work you can make meaningful choices. For example, a meaningful choice might be scaling back the time you spend at the office and devoting those hours to volunteer work.

Here are the top four things that will help you do work that matters.

1. Produce work that creates a better world.

I think people are hungry to do meaningful, creative work. Work that contributes to producing a better world; one in which we can get more from less.

Ask yourself:

  • How does my work make other lives better?
  • Does my work give me time for family and community?
  • Do I  have creative control over my work?
  • What is my legacy?

2. Expand your knowledge base to pursue creative endeavors.

Keep learning and expanding your knowledge to pursue creative endeavors, to question the status-quo, and to make informed choices.

3. Focus on one thing at a time.

In an age of distraction there is a lot to be said for focus. So many folks try to do 5 things at once, rather than focusing on one task. For instance, if your working on an article focus on that task. Do you research ahead of time and then start writing.

4. Keep asking questions.

Professionals control the technical means but not the social goals of their creative work. The professional’s lack of control over the political content of his or her creative work is the hidden root of much career dissatisfaction … Professionals are licensed to think on the job, but they are obedient thinkers. ~Jeff Schmidt

Continue to ask yourself hard questions about the nature of work. By asking tough questions you might be “unprofessional,” but you won’t be an obedient thinker.

What would you add to the list?

Reprinted from the “social change through simple living” blog at rowdykittens.com

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Have You Discovered Your Gifts?

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We may not be aware of it yet, but each of us has a unique set of gifts and talents that enable us to fulfill our special purpose and contribution to the world.  Some of us discover our talents early in life in the more obvious ways as an athlete, artist, storyteller or natural teacher.  Others tend to bloom later and their gifts are less obvious; they may be great in supporting people through excellent listening skills and empathy, they may be terrific organizers and project managers, they might be great fund-raisers,  or patient with the elderly or disabled.

Innate gifts come in a wide variety of forms. You may realize that you are a gifted mother, wife and household manager; or you may be a natural visionary for a charity board; or possibly the creative idea person who develops new concepts.

Are our distinctive gifts those talents we are innately good at or are they the things we naturally love to do?  Most likely it is a little of both, but the gifts that come from our passion, our creativity or inspiration are the ones are ultimately the most powerful. Giving a gift that we all have readily available –the gift of love –is perhaps the most wonderful of all.

So, how can you identify what your gifts are?  Ask your friends and family to help you discover them.  What stands out about you may be blatantly clear to others, but may not always be as apparent to you.  Follow your heart.  Whatever your gifts are, don’t discount them, each one is valuable: all are equally important to each of us in fulfilling our individual purpose, as well as learning our own life’s lessons.  There are so many gifts people share that may seem invisible or inconsequential, but that have a lasting influence on those around them.

Once you uncover your special gift, share it with the world! In addition, mentor others, either directly or by example. That is a magnificent gift to give.  Share what you’ve learned and help others along the way, so they can turn around and do the same thing. It’s a kind of “pay it forward,” circle of support that  contributes something valuable to the world and at the same time provides satisfaction, growth and joy to the giver.

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What Does Your Life Say?

“It is better to allow our lives to speak for us than our words” - Mahatma Gandhi
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 Ghandi had a famous philosophy that said, “My life is my message.” And I think he absolutely exemplified that philosophy of life. When I think of him, the phrase that comes to mind is, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” That is exactly what his life represented and demonstrated in thought, word and deed.

 So this quote started me thinking about what I want my life to say if it is speaking for me!

The challenge for this week is to ask the following questions:

If your life is your message, what is it saying?

This is not the flowery, idealistic version! We’ll get to that but for now, let’s get a reality check. Take a long, hard look at your life. Now what is it saying?

I think most days my life message is – I am really a very kind person, but only if you are nice to me, agree with me and I have had my coffee!

Sample thoughts:
I have the best of intentions, but can’t seem to follow through.
It isn’t really wrong if no one gets hurt.
It’s really not my fault. I just can’t help it.

 What would you like your life to say?

This is where we can be idealistic. What do you really want your life to be about?

I want my life to say – Live kindly, love fully, do your best and let it go.

 Samples thoughts:
You can do anything if you try hard enough.
All that really matter is love.
Do unto others…..

 What changes do you need to make?

For me this means:

-       Think, speak and act from a place of kindness, not judgment.
-       Consider what I can give in my relationships, instead of what I can get.
-       Do everything as if it really matters and release expectations for the outcome; if it doesn’t matter don’t waste my time.
 
 
Sample thoughts:
Focus my attention on my priority of the moment.
Be present in my life and enjoy the experiences.
Spend more time listening to my heart than my head.
When in doubt, speak from a place of love. 
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Generosity

When the economy is in a downturn it’s natural to think of yourself and your family first.  You probably have a mortgage to pay, bills to think about or a family to feed.  It is our instinct to try to get more and hoard what we have already to protect ourselves and to give us a sense of security.  It is certainly counter-intuitive to dedicate more of our time, attention and financial resources to those in the world around us when we are plagued by fear and insecurity.

However that is exactly what we need to do for many reasons.  Most importantly in this sort of financial climate, the poverty and need in the world are at their greatest.  Corporate giving is diminished, the government tightens its funding and the citizenry close their wallets. Hungry children, homeless families, the terminally ill and abused animals do not go simply go away! Also consider that the fastest way out of a recession is for people, governments and businesses to spend money, which serves to support our economy.

If you still have a job, a home, health-care and food then be grateful – you are lucky! Please continue to practice generosity and remember that there is always someone in greater need than you.

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